Four

Today you are four.  Unbelievable.  I say that every year and will continue to do so.  It's incredible how fast time is going and we are amazed every day at the person you are becoming.  You continue to be head-strong, opinionated and  passionate.  You also are kind, sensitive and very thoughtful.  You are a nurturer. You love to sing and dance and your creativity impresses us every day.  You make up stories, you make up songs, you use your imagination.  You love to draw and color and create.  Every single thing you come into contact with is a treasure--a rock, a stick, a leaf, a scrap of paper.  You are a collector and organizer.  You are a helper who always needs a special job.  You want to be involved.  You ask lots and lots of questions.  You still do not like to sleep.  Four years now and still fighting it.  We are waiting anxiously for you to fall into the 'I want to sleep' phase.  So many other phases have come and gone, but still this one eludes you.  Some day, some day.  You give loves, adore your brother but also adore bossing him around.  You are a leader but sometimes lack confidence.  You always want to succeed.  You warm our hearts, keep us on our toes, challenge your boundaries, test our patience.  You know exactly what you want and if it's not just so, you certainly let us know.  You are growing, learning and evolving in so many unbelievable ways. You are loved more than you will ever know.  A very happy 4th birthday to our Carmen James--the light of our lives.  So many wonderful times and adventures ahead.  We can't wait for what's around the corner.