She's got spirit

There is no doubt that our little girl is independent, has a fiery personality and is spirited.  She at times can be quite a handful and there have been some days over the last few weeks that make me wonder where her behavior is coming from.  Here new favorite phrase is, "No. Me." because she wants to do everything herself.  Just when I think I'm losing my mind and can't take anymore of the whining and fussing for no reason, the switch flips and she is back to be being the sweet, but still sassy Carmen J that we know and love so much.  There are kisses for mom and dad, please and thank yous, bringing plates into the kitchen and putting the food in the 'yuck' when meal time is over without a fuss, actually cleaning up toys without being asked, no complaints about going into the car seat or stroller.  I'm often left scratching my head about the sudden changes in behavior and mood but have been trying not to question it and just accept it for what it is.  Our girl is fearless, head strong and pretty darn smart.  She knows how to get her way and how to manipulate and we are usually willing participants as she wins us over with her smile, persistence, and determination.  We have lots to learn on this parenting journey and are works in progress but promise we will always do the best we can to guide our spirited little one while continuing to let her be who she is becoming. So far we like what we see.